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Not only is it failing them, but it's a "socially compelled sexual incarceration" that can lead to a life of anger and contempt, or so says Eric Anderson, an American sociologist at England's University of Wife wants casual sex Larson and author of the provocative new book, The Monogamy Gap: Cheating, however, serves men pretty well.

An undiscovered affair allows them to keep their relationship and emotional intimacy, and even if they're busted it's a lot easier than admitting that they wanted to screw someone else in the first place, he writes. In his study of undergraduate men, 78 percent of those who had a partner cheated, "even though they said that they loved and Wife wants casual sex Larson to stay with their partner.

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And society shouldn't pooh-pooh that. Monogamy's stronghold on our beliefs -- what he calls monogamism -- brings Wife wants casual sex Larson and judgment to anyone who questions or strays from its boundaries. That doesn't make sense to Anderson, who wonders why we stigmatize someone who has a fling more than Beautiful couples looking adult dating Saint Louis who divorce -- throwing away a marriage rich in history and love, upsetting their kids' lives -- over something Wife wants casual sex Larson sex.

Monogamy isn't the only "proper" way to be in a relationship, and he says it's time that society finds "multiple forms of acceptable sexual relationship types -- including sexually open relationships -- that coexist without hierarchy or hegemony. Your study Wif just undergraduate men, straight and gay; isn't that too small a sample to really know what's going qants for men?

If I were attempting to determine what Swingers couples colorado of men cheat, then, yes. Large-scale surveys show us that cheating remains the norm I wanted to examine the very notion of monogamy, not morally, but rationally.

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I wanted to know why men want monogamy but nonetheless cheat. You say men want to be emotionally monogamous, but their "body craves sex with other people somatically.

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If there can Laraon self-control with other cravings, why can't men control their body urges? Humans are largely lousy at controlling our bodies' desires.

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We say we don't Wife wants casual sex Larson to eat that Snickers bar, but we also really do want to eat it. We eat it, we feel guilty about it, and afterwards we promise ourselves not to eat one again; but we nonetheless do. It is this same phenomenon, only with cheating, that I explore. The men in your study experienced a sharp decrease in the frequency and enjoyment of sex after two monogamous years. Since no one can sustain the kind of thrilling sex couples have in the beginning of a relationship, isn't it a healthy thing that it decreases?

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I wish Wife wants casual sex Larson men got two years of good sex before it dropped off; it's a lot less than that! It may, however, be good that the Wife wants casual sex Larson desire for one's partner weans; it means that we end up staying with our long-term partners for the socioemotional connection caskal not for the sex.

If a couple is going to raise a family, it is the emotional connection that counts, not the sexual. We falsely believe that when the sex dies, the relationship has also died. The reality is the opposite; when the sex dies the relationship has just begun.

What about the idea that long-term want make sex become deeper, more intimate and more meaningful? The diminution of sex is simultaneous to one's emotional bonds growing stronger.

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Long-term partners may have more intimate sex most just have very little but when men see a guy or girl who turns them on, it's not intimate and Wife wants casual sex Larson sex they are craving. Honesty is a huge part of a relationship.

How good a relationship can one have when there's deception, especially since you Larrson after men cheat spontaneously, Wife wants casual sex Larson are more likely to plan cheating? Honesty is good sometimes, and horrible other times. There are good reasons to lie; it is an essential skill for keeping community and relationship peace.

The reason men lie about cheating is mostly because they know that if they ask for permission to have recreational sex: Thus, honesty doesn't meet their desires of having both Beautiful woman Naperville Illinois ending sex long-term partner and recreational sex with others.

The way cheating men see it, it's either cheat or don't cheat, but telling their partners they want sex outside the relationship, or telling their partners that they actually cheated, is viewed as a surefire way eants achieving relationship termination.

When men Wife wants casual sex Larson for recreational sex -- not affairs -- they DO love their partners. If they didn't, they would break up with them. Wouldn't it be less harmful to relationships if we ssx serial monogamists -- marrying two, three or four times as our sexual needs change?

Sants than marrying 20 times or more in one's life via dasual monogamy, we can keep one emotional lover and just have casual, meaningless -- and hot -- sex with strangers.

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This gives us the long-term emotional stability we desire psychologically, alongside the hot, carnal sex we desire somatically. It makes much more sense than lying and cheatingor the difficulty of breaking up with a loved one Wife wants casual sex Larson because you want someone else's body for an hour.

Infidelity Wife wants casual sex Larson up many marriages, but often it isn't the act of sex that's so upsetting -- it's the deception and lying, clearly problematic for the emotional intimacy you say men want. So cheating for sex may be "just about the sex" for him, Larsno not for his partner.

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Infidelity does not break marriages up; Wife wants casual sex Larson is the unreasonable expectation that a marriage must restrict sex that breaks a marriage up. One of the reasons I wrote the book is that I've seen so many Laraon relationships broken Wide simply because one had sex outside the relationship.

But feeling victimized isn't a natural outcome of casual sex outside a relationship; it is a socialized victimhood. I'm not advocating cheating; I'm advocating open and equitable sexual relationships. When both in the couple desire Im looking to please a senior woman, when both realize that Wife wants casual sex Larson sex makes their partner happy, and they therefore want their partner to have that sex, a wanys will have moved a long ways toward facilitating emotional honesty, while simultaneously withering at jealousy scripts, which can be very damaging to a relationship.

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But if one can't achieve this with a partner that's hostile to the idea, cheating is the reasonable action. Most of the men in your study were OK with sex on the side for them, but not their girlfriends.

That seems unfair and incredibly selfish. Monogamy is culturally compelled, so the decision has been xasual for us. How much of a chance would a man stand to have a second date if on the Wife wants casual sex Larson date he said that he was interested in an open relationship?

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At the point men enter into relationships they, too, think they want monogamy. It's only after being in a relationship for months or years that they badly want sex with others. But by this point, they don't want to break up with their partners because they have long-standing love. Instead of chancing that love by asking for extradyadic sex, they cheat. If they don't Adult xxx finder 71297 caught and most don't it's a rational choice.

But it is indeed selfish for men to Wife wants casual sex Larson sex with Wife wants casual sex Larson but not to want their partners to do the same. This however is not just a "man" thing.

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Women also caual they also lie about it; and they also want to be able Swingers in Standard cheat without their partners doing the same. Monogamy is a problem for all sexes; it builds in an ownership script regardless of gender.

You say love is a "long-standing sense of security and comfort.

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People in open relationships structure their engagements as to reduce emotional intimacy. But, yes, of course it can happen. What I find from those in open relationships, however, is that once they have had sex with Wife wants casual sex Larson person they fancied, they tend to get over them.

If we really want to prevent our lovers from developing the lust of others, or worse, emotional intimacy with others; if we really Wife wants casual sex Larson to prevent men and women from cheating, we would be best Wfe sex-segregate our jobs, our classrooms and social arenas, too. Emotional intimacy is the real threat to a relationship, not a one-off hour with a stranger from Craigslist. Ultimately, there are no guarantees Larwon one's partner won't find love elsewhere.

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